Dear Priscilla, please whenever you see something suspicious on your husband’s phone or concerning him, ask him a direct question to clarify so that you won’t make an error of judgment which can be destructive.
Things are not always the way they appear.
The approach you took to this last one was wrong.
You opened his phone (means you have access to it which is a good sign – people who cheat don’t allow their wives access to their phone) – and you saw that he asked someone in his workplace who was going to buy food to buy food for him. You then concluded there was something to it and started using it to taunt him even when you’ve not gotten any clarifications about it. Very wrong.
Eventhough you claimed you were joking – that was a very expensive joke.
When he finally provided clarifications, it was clear your accusation was baseless.
By wrongly accusing your husband, you attract hatred for yourself. Or even push him to do what you’re wrongly accusing him for if he’s not the very strong Christian type.
Be always slow to draw conclusions.
”Hey baby, I stumbled on this conversation between you and so and so on your phone. Would you like to throw more light into it?”
Then give him a chance to explain. From the explanation, you can now tell whether there’s something to it or there’s nothing to it.
But to hastily draw conclusions, accuse him wrongly and then expect him to defend himself from the place of your conclusion, it usually won’t happen. He will just shut down and tell you your assumption is true – do whatever you want to do.
Please learn from this. Always give each other an opportunity to present a defense to whatever you find suspicious. And keep an open mind until you hear from each other.
Wrongful accusation is very painful and can be destructive for a marital relationship.
Your bother,
PEA.
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